Okay I want to really discuss this topic. I'm sure by now everyone must have seen the picture of a lady named Hellen Aturinda on their timelines with a picture saying '' Home breaker, leave my husband alone!!! '' Say what! This particular wife ain't smiling at all but is this the best approach to handle your husband's mistress?
I had to do a research on Hellen and found out she graduated from Kampala University in Uganda in 2012 and currently occupies a position as a marketing manager in a high brow company in Kampala . A closer look at Hellen's arm on the left will reveal some tattoos inscribed in letters showing she ain't no ordinary smiling chic lool.
So I had some discussions with a few friends of mine and while some blamed Hellen for dating someone else's husband, others blamed the enraged wife for not keeping her home probably having gained weight, getting loose down there ( v jay jay) from child birth , not dressing well etc and I'm like there are many very superb looking women whose husband's still cheat on.
A couple of married and single friends of mine called Hellen all sorts of derogatory names to harsh to put on my blog but some of these single ladies have live in boyfriends and men who straff( sex) them on the regular some without benefits. So I began thinking, if fornication and adultery are both sins, why should the one committing adultery be judged more cos the final destination for both according to religion is hell. Even gossip (God have mercy ooo lool) , cheating is sin and many other things we do , why then do people feel the need to judge and cast the first stone. I'm not in anyway supporting Hellen but how would the victimized enraged wife have handled it better? Are there really things women /wives can do to prevent their husbands from straying outside the matrimonial home or should we just accept the popular phrase '' men are polygamous in nature''?
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