Ok,this is a really sensitive topic , but I have been worried and disturbed over this issue.
I recently ran into a friend whose sister's hubby has been away abroad for over 3 years and wondered how she kept body and soul together ( you understand what I mean).
The lady being human would definitely have sexual urges, but not allowed to sleep with another man as it is a grave sin in the sight of God , not to mention the society also frowns at a lady having affairs outside her matrimonial home.
So I wondered, if I were in her shoes, what would I do?
Whether people fail to accept it or not, we all know there are sex toys of different kinds , colors , shapes and sizes.
While using a sex toy can be termed masturbation and a sin , remember a single lady has an option of having as many guys as she wants.
If a relationship isn't satisfying or one partner isn't available, she can easily switch to the next which is not the case for a married woman ( except for randy married women).
Don't get me wrong, I am not trying to say a lady should sleep around even when single , I am simply trying to paint a picture to enable you understand my point better.
I feel the use of a sex toy doesn't apply to married women whose husbands actually are available and satisfy their sexual needs ( so not necessary).
However , in the case of a married lady who has to deal with the absence of her husband due to work e.g if her husband works on an oil rig and has to stay offshore for months , has to be abroad for years, and some with overly busy husbands who are never available to meet their sexual needs , is using a sex toy a sin and wrong in this case?
My thoughts are since it is wrong and a sin to cheat on your husband, is it also wrong to augment ones hubby's sexual absence with a sex toy?
Remember body no be wood.
Partners use sex toys even when they satisfy each other,some use it to spice up their sex life.but it's sin if she hides it away and only uses it wen he's not there.
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