I was inspired to write this post after popular blogger Perez Hilton tweeted this above.
Well guess what? He is white and western but still acknowledges that the consequences of sending nude pictures as a lady to a guy lover/boyfriend could be grave.
Letting them (boyfriend/lover) take naked pictures of you or making a sex video/ tape is totally out of the question.
Some guys/boyfriends when in love actually ask their lovers ( ladies) to send them nude pictures of themselves and deem it sexy.
Some chicks, so in love or lust and not wanting to appear timid take poses and send them innocently.
While some ladies have been lucky, experiencing no grave consequence from their actions , others have not.
So many ladies have been victims of having their naked pictures and bodies splattered on internet sites.
In this era of social media, one leak is enough to make a naked picture go viral.
What is the big deal? I will just cry it off and move on with my life if I fall a victim some ladies will say.
Well dear, you may be a hot, funky , carefree and spontaneous chick today , but may end up holding a top position in life tomorrow. The future we all know is truly uncertain.
You wouldn't want a blackmail would you? Not to talk of the shame and embarrassment it would bring to those closest to you.
Kim Kardashian and Paris Hilton may have become more popular as a result of their scandalous sex tapes and naked bodies , but you may not be as lucky.
In the case of Paris Hilton, it was even her boyfriend back then Rick Salomon who leaked their sex tape to the public himself.
Your lover today could be your worst enemy tomorrow ( Imagine Ray J bragging he hit Kim Kardashian first).
Besides, they live in the western part of the world America, and this is Nigeria and Africa.
The next time your boyfriend/lover who isn't married to you tells you'' send me a naked picture of you'' , tell him to send his instead and watch his reaction.
I have been a victim , but never thought twice to decline.
Even if he does , remember in the event of a scandal, men get away with alot compared to women in this part of the world. Be wise!!!
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